The original poster explained that during their four-year marriage and dating life prior, she and her husband always practiced monogamy. But suddenly, he wants to open their marriage even though he loves her “deeply.” He thought having sex with other people could give them a little extra spice.
“I was shocked. I’ve always been monogamous, and we had never discussed anything like this before, even while dating. When we got married, we promised to be committed to each other,” she wrote. “This felt like a betrayal of those vows to me. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with the idea, but he kept bringing it up, insisting it could strengthen our relationship.”
