My Ex Had Five Kids With Four Men & Wants Me To Be Father Figure to All of Them — No Way

Redditors were quick to remind OP that he didn’t create these children, and he only has to care for those who belong to him.

Someone wrote: “Nta, you don’t owe her anything, and you are not being an AH to your kids. They’re not your responsibility. It’s not like you are rubbing things in her kids’ faces. But maybe encourage your sons not to tell their siblings much, which obviously doesn’t help with the mother interrogating them.”

This person agreed commenting: “NTA. That is such an odd ask. Even if you were crazy enough to agree, why on earth would her current husband be okay with you playing a bigger role in his kid’s life? She needs to focus on rehabbing the husband she’s got, not harassing the one she lost. Next time she asks, give her a brochure on birth control and a copy of your custody schedule that names only 2 kids.”